The Heart Is Pure

A man asks why, if we know our true nature, surrender is still discussed. Rupert explains that surrender can be understood at different levels, including the highest form where there’s no separate self to surrender. Practical steps like practising the presence of God are also valid and helpful.

A man feels physical tightness and social discomfort linked to shame and guilt. Rupert advises investigating the self behind these feelings and breathing awareness into the sensations to dissolve them.

A woman struggles to connect deeply with friends and family, feeling a deep, non-egoic grief. Rupert advises accepting this sorrow, loving them unconditionally, and seeking more empathetic relationships.

A man feels stuck, and he experiences physical tightness linked to shame and guilt. Rupert advises exploring the self behind these emotions and using awareness to dissolve the sensations.

A woman feels grief over not connecting deeply with friends and family. Rupert advises loving them unconditionally without expecting change. As one lets go of expectations, the sorrow will diminish, and relationships may improve slightly.

A man asks about the role of the heart in non-dual understanding, given its prominence in mystical traditions. Rupert explains that the heart is pure love, veiled by emotions like sorrow and guilt. Purifying the heart means unveiling it to reveal its true nature, which aligns with psychological shadow work to unveil the heart’s pure love.

A man asks Rupert about the statement that manifestation costs consciousness its inherent peace. Rupert clarifies that while manifestation doesn’t stop peace, the infinite consciousness localises as a finite mind to perceive the world, often overlooking its true nature. This causes a deep sorrow and longing within separate selves, as they forget their innate happiness and seek to return to their true, undivided nature.

A man shares his fears and frustrations about life changes, chronic pain, and doubts about Rupert’s teachings. Rupert acknowledges his disappointment, emphasising that true happiness cannot be found in external sources, including teachings. He encourages the man to explore on his own, assuring him the community will always welcome him back.

A woman dreads leaving the retreat, fearing the loss of peace. Rupert advises regularly returning to being amidst daily activities and aligning outer life with this understanding to maintain inner peace.

A first-time attendee asks about handling loneliness and fear as his children move away. Rupert advises abiding in being, which reveals our peaceful nature and diminishes these feelings over time.

A woman shares how her heart closed during the last retreat and remained so for months, causing discomfort. Rupert explains that an open heart allows one’s true being to shine, feeling more like oneself.

A man describes a near-death experience where he felt out of his body, questioning if it was his infinite self or a biochemical reaction. Rupert explains that he experienced his true being, which transcends physical boundaries.